Posted on May 9, 2010 by Lyssa
Neo-Neocon has a thought provoking post on the anniversary of the Pill. (via Instapundit)
By the time I was growing up the Pill was already a fact of life, albeit a new one. I certainly used it, and I believe that on the whole I, personally, benefited greatly from it. But that doesn’t mean it was an unmitigated plus in all respects…
he Pill plus Roe v. Wade changed all that. One would think that with the former there would hardly be any need for the latter. But if one thought that, one would be wrong. The advent of easy and extremely effective contraception has brought with it a cavalier attitude towards it. This is partly because abortion is also seen as so relatively easy, safe, and available; partly because unwed motherhood has turned into something so acceptable and is even romanticized as desirable; and partly because sex is now ubiquitous even for the very young and very irresponsible.These things are not coincidental to the Pill—they are at least in part a direct result of what Sanger envisioned, the freeing of women to enjoy sex without its previous built-in consequences. But, as with so many things, consequences follow us around nevertheless; they are just different consequences….
There were terrible costs to the bad old pre-Pill days. But there are huge problems today as well, and they are not limited to teens—women who delayed pregnancy for so long that they find their biological clocks have run down, for example, or those who have a long series of meaningless relationships in a chase after that elusive and perfect (and non-existent) sexual partner who will fulfill their every desire. When we have more choices, we must bear the consequences of the decisions we do make.
I’m younger than Neo, and the pill was as much of a fact of life as penicillin by the time I came of age. Like Neo, I’m sure that it has been, and continues to be, positive for my life. (Without it, it would certainly have been more difficult to earn a J.D. during my marriage!) But I agree that we make a mistake when we consider it an unmitigated good thing. We should not ignore the consequences and social changes that the pill has at least partially brought. That doesn’t mean that it is a negative thing or that it should not be used, it just means that we should pay attention to the unintended consequences.
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Posted on May 3, 2010 by Lyssa
If that’s true, why do women receiving one need someone to hold their hands while having one done? Slate writes:
A recent Bust magazine article on the pregnancy assistants known as doulas contained this description of their duties: “Sometimes the doula will hold a woman’s hand or rub her scalp to calm her; other times, she may crack corny jokes or trade dating stories.” Except the article wasn’t about a doula entertaining a woman in labor—it was about a doula helping a woman during her abortion.
Assisting a woman during her vacuum aspiration was not always part of a doula’s job description. Most doulas serve pregnant women in the last few months before and during her delivery….
Abortion doula services were unheard of until three years ago, when pro-choice activists within the birth community decided that they should serve the full spectrum of pregnancy choices, whether it’s birth, adoption, or abortion. Mary Mahoney and Lauren Mitchell created New York City’s Doula Project, a volunteer-based service that provides free doula services to women in New York City. They work with pregnant women who can’t afford doulas, expectant birth-mothers at a pro-choice adoption agency, and provide abortion doula services in Manhattan and Brooklyn.
Now, I can understand having a doula for a birth- there’s something pretty darn awesome, and stressful!, about bringing a life into the world. But these services, as pointed out in the article, cost from $300 on up- no one’s arguing that a patient should have one for an appendix removal or hysterectomy. What’s different about abortion? A person can deny what’s going on, and some even succeed at it, but there’s going to be a lot of stress from trying to convince yourself that the thing that you are having “removed” is not a person. We all know that abortion is not just another medical procedure.
Related: Why can’t we just say it?
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Posted on February 8, 2010 by Lyssa
and pro-choicers who stood up against their own, when the National Organization of Women Who Think Like Us went after Focus on the Family’s Tim Tebow and his mom pro-life ad.
Jill Stanek at BigJournalism.com summarizes some of their statements.
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Posted on December 30, 2009 by Lyssa
I’ve had an article published at NewsBlaze. Here’s an excerpt:
I must confess that one of my guilty pleasures is the often outrageous FX show Nip/Tuck. Last night I was catching up on my pre-holiday DVR-ing, and was rather intrigued by the last episode of the season’s handling of a sensitive topic. One of the (many) over-sexed characters found herself pregnant, and the father, with whom she is quite enamoured, insisted that he would not stick around if she kept it. After a great deal of garment renting, she, well, . . . she opted out. She made her choice. She had it taken care of.
At the, well, “place,” she called another character to pick her up. They discussed “it,” and it was revealed that the other character had been “through it” before. Finally, after she had had “it” done, the other character finally manged to say what had occurred to the father. Both this character and the father were doctors; even so, she prefaced it with a “you know” and a trail off before she could finally bring herself to say the word: “abortion.
Please visit NewsBlaze to check out the rest of this article, and let me know what you think.
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Posted on October 15, 2009 by Lyssa
Slate’s allegedly feminist site peddals the myth that attempts to demonize anti-abortionists:
The anti-choice movement’s hostility towards contraception is an open secret; most people on both sides of the debate know about it, but anti-choice activists also know better than to flaunt their hatred of contraception when trying to woo people on the issue of abortion.
OK, this impression/myth/assertion frustrates me to no end. I’m a life-long Catholic; I live in a very conservative part of the country; my family is very pro-life. I have literally never met ANYone who is actually against contraception. My mother, who is a single issue voter and completely single minded on the subject, had her tubes tied and has never expressed any objections to my use of the pill (and believe me, she would).
I’ve met a few people who assert that it is not the choice for them and practice natural family planning (which, with modern science, is actually just barely under the pill in success-rates). But, even in my (Catholic) pre-marital counseling, they only suggested NFP; they said that it was a choice, not a sin, to decide against it.
The only places that I have ever seen stories against birth control use come from leftist or “feminist” writers who are anxious to characterize anti-abortionists as “anti-choice” (my choice is the pill, thanks) or to paint every last person who values life as a clinic bomber.
(This is, as I’m sure you know, but I’m guessing that Slate’s readers will conveniently not notice, not to say that anti-contraception-ists do not exist, only that they are extremely rare and not in any way representative of the anti-abortion movement in general, to the point that they are simply not worth worrying about.)
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Posted on September 6, 2009 by Lyssa